On the 21st of April 2019, several locations across Sri Lanka were bombed by extremists targeting Christians celebrating Easter and tourists staying in luxury hotels. The terrorists murdered approximately 300 people and devastated countless lives. (The Guardian). Two days after the attacks my husband and I flew to Sri Lanka, to celebrate our honeymoon and to travel a country we had always been drawn to.
Having been so touched by our experiences I have created this post hoping to share a view beyond terror, encourage tourism and reach out to people wanting to visit Sri Lanka and Governments who have advised people not to fly. I hope for a peaceful and sustainable future for Sri Lanka; one of the most beautiful countries I have ever been to.
We left on the 23rd of April, with a natural sense of trepidation but also with a mind-set that if we changed our plans and gave up then terrorism would win. There are atrocities all over the World and we were deeply moved by what we saw before we left but we will not live in fear. A few days after we arrived we saw that the UK Government had advised against all non-essential travel and we found this step far too severe. When we arrived, the airport was quiet and heavily protected and we saw more armed forces than ever before. It felt sad and very unlike the zesty Asia we knew. We were soon informed that social media had been banned to stop the spread of false news reports and violence and all taxis and private hire drivers had been stopped from entering the Airport as a safety precaution. (BBC News).
I was impressed and it made sense, it was firm but fair and Sri Lanka had clearly acted quickly and effectively. Soon, beyond the airport, assisted by some troops we found a sea drivers with smiles and signs, we found our car, waved goodbye to the army and started our travels.
Over the course of a month we travelled parts of the West, South, East and Central Province, took many Tuk Tuk journeys and the World famous train journey between Ella and Kandy. Not at any point did we feel threatened or unsafe and the journeys were stunning. The landscapes reached up to the clouds, the coasts went on forever and we saw countless bridges, ridges and ravines, people working on tea plantations, elephants and lizards. Like in anything, you can focus on the bad and that will be all you see but look beyond the minorities of doom and you will find so much splendour.
Along our journey we did see many roadblocks and checkpoints, we were stopped and searched by the army and had many conversations. Often they thanked us for visiting and we thanked them for taking care of us, we shook hands and smiled. It makes me emotional to remember their faces, they were so caring, and their dedication to protect their country, their people and their much loved visitors was remarkable. We felt nothing but welcomed, reassured and blessed. Sri Lanka has been through so much, after being devastated by the 2004 Tsunami and having come so far since the deadly Civil War ending in 2009. It doesn’t want to return to these dark places. (Fair Observer.) We met a man who said; ‘We have had war, we don’t want that, this is different, the extremists don’t want to see our peace, our many cultures, but they are few and we are many and we will find a way through.’ Deep words and positive energy born from tragedy is very powerful.
We visited coasts, countryside, towns, cities and villages. We ate delicious home produced food, jostled in markets, supported local tradespeople, learnt to cook, went on Safari, surfed and explored hand built Temples. We saw no trouble but knew if we did we would be fine. We met some amazing people with whom we have shared special moments that we will treasure forever. Like any travelling experience, you move through communities and cultures, but Sri Lanka is different, it is a very special place.
In Arugam Bay, on the East Coast we were particularly at home and stayed at an amazing place just steps from the beach. It was the perfect location for surfing and swimming and we made good friends with our hosts, who we spent much time with. We come from a tourist town ourselves and have both worked in hospitality in the past, and we absolutely know the importance of seasons and the expectations and joy these should bring. Sadly, the accommodation providers we met had seen large drops in bookings and many cancellations, Tuk Tuk drivers waited for fares that weren’t coming and restaurants displaying the freshest food were empty.
We met a driver and his words still ring in my ears; ‘I am a tour guide, everyone has cancelled, no one is coming, we are in real trouble, please share the goodness of our country and I hope your country will help us.’ I promised I would do something and I hope that this post is read and shared by many. We saw truly empowering moments of Sri Lanka rising up with peace and love against hate and we believe the World can learn so much. To see a county reacting so passionately and positively against terror is inspiring and I would like to see Governments support the actions of Sri Lanka, see beyond the hate and update their websites to enable travel. (Gov.UK.) Here’s a little thought, put the UK in Sri Lanka’s shoes. If London, Bristol and Birmingham were attacked, should tourists be stopped coming to the whole country? Should we let a minority so clearly lost in themselves affect the lives of the wondrous and good? And my answer to that, is definitely no!
The evening we left for the airport was Vesak Day (Lonely Planet). It is one of the biggest Buddhist festivals in Sri Lanka, taking place on the full moon and celebrating Buddha’s birth, enlightenment and death. The country is lit up with lanterns, lights and adorned with flags and this year people lit extra lights in memory of all those killed in the Easter Bombings and for all religions to show solidarity together. Leaving was a breath-taking sight and very emotional. On the way to the airport we were stopped by roadblocks, but this time it was local communities coming out into the streets offering food and drink to share in the celebrations.
I hope for a peaceful and a sustainable future for Sri Lanka. ‘The Pearl of the Indian Ocean’ is an amazingly diverse place where a sense of freedom, kindness and beauty awaits you.
This post is dedicated to all those lost in the Easter Bombings and my heart goes out to all those affected.
Peace and Love,
UPDATE: Gov.UK @ 22/07/2019